Sexinyourcity vs regular dating

I am a member for 5 months now of sexinyoucity. I am also on a regular dating site. No luck there so came on here to see if I could at least meet a FF. I had 2 meetings so far. They were what I wanted and needed but I never got to talk to them again. But I guess who really cares because there are other girls out there on the site and I can just see them too and I like the beginning where you can flirt and tease a lot. I can do this now. I’ll keep looking for a serious relationship too but I like and need sex.